Meet Bethany Hendricks, LMFT
You’re already stronger than you think you are.
Are you looking for a therapist who isn’t just going to nod and say “uh-huh”?
You’re in the right place.
I’m here to help you move the dial on your life.
Life is complicated! And we are not meant to go it alone. I bring a unique, practical approach to problem solving, but my style is anchored in warmth, humor, optimism, and a fierce commitment to do the best by my clients. One of my greatest strengths is seeing the strengths in others and helping them to likewise see those qualities in themselves. It would be my privilege to work with you and help you to discover all the good you have to offer to this world, and also help you work through whatever challenges or struggles you are currently facing. Asking for help isn’t only the brave thing to do, it’s the smart thing to do. My client-centered approach means that together we will seek the path that best helps you to thrive. It’s okay to laugh in therapy, it’s okay to cry in therapy, and it’s okay sometimes just to be quiet in therapy. This is your journey.
Professional Background
My background is not that of a typical therapist. I spent over 25 years working in the global investment management industry at an executive level, holding leadership positions where I was responsible for large groups of people and substantial budgets. However, what I was always best at was the people side of the work: finding the good in people, encouraging employees to understand their own potential, and helping leaders access and maximize the greatest strengths of their employees. And now I do those same things with my clients.
As a therapist, I have worked with a variety of age groups, genders, sexual orientations, and ethnicities. It is an honor to work with motivated clients and witness true and meaningful change in their lives. My clients often offer the observation that I’m not always like other therapists. They describe me as “non-judgmental…..full of ideas…..friendly and compassionate…..highly engaged and interactive,” and sometimes…… “funny!”
Clinical Specialties
Although I enjoy working with all ages and all kinds of people, I particularly enjoy leveraging the experience I’ve gained from the two main jobs I’ve had in my life: corporate executive and mom.
Therefore, much of my practice focuses on:
Helping teens (and their parents!) get through the growing-up years.
Because I’ve raised two children, I have firsthand experience in parenting being the “long game,” and I love to help parents find ways of improving the family dynamic. And being a kid? It’s hard! I likewise love to work with teen clients. My open, casual, non-judgmental style is a good fit for teens, and my solution-focused approach with parents helps your family find some quick wins, and then builds toward greater goals such as improved communication, mutual respect, and increased harmony in your home.
Helping high performers, such as professionals, business owners, C-suite executives, and entrepreneurs, balance their high powered lives with their minds and hearts.
Given my corporate background, I’m keenly aware of the high pressure and stress that accompanies certain professional roles, and the isolation that can correspond to being in a leadership position. I’m also aware you are still a human being—with a family, relationships, and feelings. Let me help you to navigate your high-powered life, heal what needs to be healed, and find a new level of peace.
Personal
I am a TEDx Speaker (watch here), a non-profit leader, and a former Wheel of Fortune contestant. I’m also a wife, a mom of two college-aged kids, and an avid Labrador Retriever fan. I like to play tennis, pickleball, and ping-pong. I enjoy a great meal (preferably one I didn’t have to cook myself), appreciating the beauty of nature, and spending time with those I love.
My style
I believe one of the most important aspects of therapy is for it to be a NO JUDGMENT ZONE.
No matter the challenge you're facing, chances are I've encountered it with another client, friend, acquaintance, through my own children, or personally experienced a similar situation myself. That’s not to say you’re not special and one-of-a-kind, and I’ll be eager to hear the details of your unique story, but it just means all humans share some basic strengths and weaknesses, impulses, needs, and desires.
And as a result? I judge nothing.
This is truly a NO JUDGMENT ZONE.
Bring your true lived-experience, and I promise I will meet you there with grace and understanding. You are safe here.
My guiding principles
Rapport
Building rapport is perhaps the most important part of a successful therapeutic relationship. From the moment you step into my office, I’ll work to make you feel comfortable and welcome. I am truly so glad you’re here!
Client-Led
I like to tell my clients, “You own the gas pedal and you own the brake pedal.” What I mean by this, is you get to decide at what pace you open up. This isn’t a race. And just because I ask a question, doesn’t mean you have to answer it.
Progress
Therapy isn’t about talking in circles—it’s about moving forward. I’ll check in with you periodically to ensure we’re moving the dial and on the right path for you and your goals.
Authenticity
Every time I enter the therapy room, I bring my true, authentic self. Sometimes that means I laugh too loudly. Sometimes that means I tear up a little right along with you. But hey, it’s me. I ask you to do the same. Therapy is not a performance and there are no expectations. Bring the real you and see the real results.
Training & Education
Undergrad at UC San Diego and UC Davis, Bachelor of Arts in Economics.
Graduate work at UMass Global, Master of Arts in Psychology.
Completed 3000 supervised hours as a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist prior to becoming a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #145049.
Trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Level 1 and Level 2 of Brainspotting. Both EMDR and Brainspotting are powerful, focused treatment methods that help access unprocessed trauma and provide healing and relief.
Ran a weekly DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) Group for a year and a half, giving me a deep understanding of that modality, which is especially relevant to treating clients who self-harm.
Member of CAMFT (California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists).